Cómo Criar a los Varones

De la autoridad más confiable en el tema de la crianza de los hijos, el Dr. James Dobson, finalmente, consejos sensibles y estímulo acerca de cómo criar a los hijos varones. Con tanta confusión en referencia al papel del hombre en la sociedad, no es ningún asombro ver como tantos maestros y padres se sienten perdidos acerca del tema. Nuestra cultura ha difamado la masculinidad y como consecuencia, los muchachos están sufriendo. About the Author de la autoridad más confiable en el tema de la crianza de los hijos, el Dr. James Dobson, finalmente, consejos sensibles y estímulo acerca de cómo criar a los hijos varones. Con tanta confusión en referencia al papel del hombre en la sociedad, no es ningún asombro ver como tantos maestros y padres se sienten perdidos acerca del tema. Nuestra cultura ha difamado la masculinidad y como consecuencia, los muchachos están sufriendo. Excerpt. © Reprinted by permission. All rights reserved. Como Criar A los Varones / Bringing Up BoysBy James DobsonSpanish House Inc.Copyright © 2002James DobsonAll right reserved.ISBN: 9780789910004Chapter OneThe Wonderful World of BoysGreetings to all the men and women out there who are blessed to be called parents. There is no greater privilege in living than bringing a tiny new human being into the world and then trying to raise him or her properly during the next eighteen years. Doing that job right requires all the intelligence, wisdom, and determination you will be able to muster from day to day. And for parents whose family includes one or more boys, the greatest challenge may be just keeping them alive through childhood and adolescence.We have a delightful four-year-old youngster in our family named Jeffrey who is "all boy." One day last week, his parents and grandparents were talking in the family room when they realized that the child hadn't been seen in the past few minutes. They quickly searched from room to room, but he was nowhere to be found. Four adults scurried throughout the neighborhood calling, "Jeffrey? Jeffrey!" No answer. The kid had simply disappeared. Panic gripped the family as terrible possibilities loomed before them. Had he been kidnapped? Did he wander away? Was he in mortal danger? Everyone muttered a prayer while running from place to place. After about fifteen minutes of sheer terror, someone suggested they call 911. As they reentered the house, the boy jumped out and said, "Hey!" to his grandfather. Little Jeffrey, bless his heart, had been hiding under the bed while chaos swirled around him. It was his idea of a joke. He honestly thought everyone else would think it was funny too. He was shocked to learn that four big people were very angry at him.Jeffrey is not a bad or rebellious kid. He is just a boy. And in case you haven't noticed, boys are different from girls. That fact was never in question for previous generations. They knew intuitively that each sex was a breed apart and that boys were typically the more unpredictable of the two. Haven't you heard your parents and grandparents say with a smile, "Girls are made out of sugar and spice and everything nice, but boys are made of snakes and snails and puppy-dog tails"? It was said tongue-in-cheek, but people of all ages thought it was based on fact. "Boys will be boys," they said knowingly. They were right.Boys are usually (but not always) tougher to raise than their sisters are. Girls can be difficult to handle too, but there is something especially challenging about boys. Although individual temperaments vary, boys are designed to be more assertive, audacious, and excitable than girls are. Psychologist John Rosemond calls them "little aggressive machines." One father referred to his son as "all afterburner and no rudder." These are some of the reasons why Maurice Chevalier never sang, "Thank Heaven for Little Boys." They just don't inspire great sentimentality.In an article entitled, "What Are Boys Made Of?"